mbti

who believes in mbti more than the koreans? i asked around here, and people dont even know theirs. if they do, they must have interest in the kpop scene. besides them, except for introvert/extrovert category, no one really have any ideas about mbti. the other black and white categories. yea, it is very black and white.

thats very weird to me, because we all clearly know that this world is not black and white, there’s grey area for everything. koreans, in particular are veery very obsessed with classifying people by, before the blood type, now mbtis. they have product lines for each mbti categories, they have videos on how different mbti’s would react on certain situations, they have debates abt it, they have all sorts of mbti quizzes you name it.

but not gonna lie, i jumped into it. there are 4 letters, which each have their own personality description or whatever. you can test it yourself here and there’s 16 different types of MBTI. and i know mine. INFJ. whatever that means. the more I read about INFJs, the more i was intrigued by how accurate it is. no way, there’s no way it can be this accurate? really? there are people who shares the same characteristics with me? they must be making this up for god knows what their agenda is. Skeptical.

but oh boy is it accurate. It says, I am very contradicting. Have so much to talk but can’t talk? yes. Fast in reading the room but not my own? yes. Love to bake but lazy? yes. i wonder if there’s anything about having short attention span.

I am an introvert, who loves to talk. people say, INFJ is the extroverts of introverts. like me, see. i talk a lot. here. but when you see meet me, or see me in public? in the corner, or even, in the middle of people, doing everything but talk. seriously there’s nothing for me to open my mouth for. and im SO SHY. or should i say, super shy? hehh

but i am different when I am with the people i am comfortable with. I talk a lot, that sometimes they get sick of me. “do you want to see what i bought?” “hey what does bowling balls are made from?” “dont you think languages are magical cause the world works just from the sounds the mouth made?” “i read a poem last night it was great-” …i love this i love that oh wow i love to talk. I hope i can find someone i can talk so much with. tibe.

but as i said earlier, and as we all know, there’s no black and white in life. i dont really believe these things. i got sick of all the “pov of an introverts” “dream for the introverts” videos on tiktoks. ookkk shutup~~~ we all want to go out and meet people too (do we). i believe each person have their introvert and extrovert side of them. after all, there are people who (is a freak) drains your social battery like hell, and there are people who makes us comfortable and energised (sweet and nice ones, who do not talk bad abt others, im not gonna list it)

so as much as how interesting mbti is, because you get to learn about youselves and others, i dont really believe it. and i dont like classifying people. i hope people stop and just celebrate people as themselves.